I'm sorry if you think I'm projecting. I'm not a good writer and sometimes I leave things out. I didn't mean taking advantage of in a bad way. I think people know what type of person they are and when on AD's they will tend to accomidate other people. For example, my W doesn't like going to the movies and I do. When she was on her AD's and if I asked her to go to the the movies she would agree. If I asked her to go for a walk she would do that too. For a few moments the M was perfect and I L her more than ever.
So I think just maybe for a little bit, he was doing things that just wasn't his personality. What we/I may think is our spouse doing something for us, is really an internal battle.
