One thing we don't realize. Is some of these people convince themself that mentally "they don't care". Its nearly impossible to reason with someone like this. Perhaps the WAW just "doesn't care"...
Many of us on DB are the types who like solutions, etc - where a "don't care" person is saying "its broke because I want it broke". "I know there's nothing wrong with you, I'm going to do this as long as you let me. If you don't like it leave, or I'll leave".
What can you do against that? Get your life back and enjoy it!!