If that's the case Mr. Bond then this whole thing actually could be his wife's fault. She may feel that he doesn't deserve to be respected which is why she had the affair, she might be treating him badly without actually realizing it..


So this could very well be her fault because she wasn't meeting his needs, which caused him to have an affair..


So she should be apologizing to HIM for not meeting his needs and partly being the cause of starting this whole mess.