What is the best way to bust the affair? He is staying at his moms house and we rarely talk, just text some. I haven't seen him in two weeks. Should I let his Mom know what he is doing? He has surrounded himself with people who approve of his actions or don't care more or less.

No one knows what he is doing except for my good friend and her h. They are both good friends of my h and I. but he has avoided any contact with them and thinks they must hate him. I have contemplated calling his good friend who he doesn't see because he lives on the other side of the state, tell him what is up and see what he does with my h. Maybe he would call him and or maybe he wouldn't I don't know. I just really don't want my family involved in this in any way.... Which does nothing but breath life to the affair, I know.

I am torn on what to do....If you couldn't tell.


M 35, husband 35
M 10
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