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If I did not have kids, I am sure that I would have already left her. But, since they are here, my life is NOT my own. In 15 years it will be my own!




cemar,

I understand your thoughts on this but want you to know that your life will never be fully your own...even when your children are grown and have children of their own what you choose to do with your life will stiff have an effect on them. My parents d'd when I was 24 (6 years ago) and I still ache over it as I know they do too.

I know that doesn't offer you any solution for the current sit but had to say it anyway (seems I like to battle you even though I agree with 95% of what you have to say.)

LL