I defintely see myself going through these multiple times. Heartsblessing writes that when you are on the receiving end of errant behavior (LBS) it is one of two scenarios. Either the WAS knows what the're doing is wrong -then you can look to the DB101 for confronting, hard line stance on things. Or two they don't know or are confused or depressed when the errant behavior occurs (and re-occurs) -then your probably more in the MLC camp.
Not sure where this will lead you only that it has been helpful to me to read these vets. Neither of these threads is very long and are packed with good stuff.
Hope your feeling more peaceful tonight...
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am