FM: Her insights and observations rang true for me and I felt that she quickly figured out the big picture of my life. I have mixed feelings about stirring up the stuff from the past though.
Do NOT bite off more than you can chew right now. Focus on immediate functionality and comfort for the next year now. Don't spend months resolving and reopening childhood stuff now. I believe NOW is the time to compartmentalize. I'm serious. You don't want to dig up stuff and have it unburied while you're going through this.