My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[TrentC]

I honestly don't think she has any intention of wanting a relationship with my h. She knows how he feels and has told him "time will tell, I enjoy talking with you, blah blah".

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I am almost positive she is leaving for the other side of the country next month....but not 100% sure. Still won't solve the problem. I think my h thinks she will want to carry on a long distance r with her.

If all of this is true, why waste time and energy messing with it?

She'll leave to have her life and he'll have to look at what he has done to your relationship. Why muddy the waters by meddling?