I have heard guys call in to Dr. Laura that are literally at their wits end. Many times they are crying, they just want a wife that can be physical with them in any way, not just sexually. Every time I have heard one of these guys, Dr. Laura pulls no punches, she flat out tells them that they have a tough decision to make on divorce. She basically says that women that don't like to touch and be intimate with their spouses, really never can be changed.