I really wouldn't have to fabricate anything to prove to her how my husband is treating her. I honestly don't think she has any intention of wanting a relationship with my h. She knows how he feels and has told him "time will tell, I enjoy talking with you, blah blah". I know She has multiple guy friends and this is evident by looking at her facebook photos. There are two photos where my h went with her and her friends to a football game. She seems so uninterested in my h and is practically leaning in front of him with her arm around another guy....plus it is obvious that my h with his salt and pepper hair is older than this 24 year old crowd.... I have to laugh at this.

I am almost positive she is leaving for the other side of the country next month....but not 100% sure. Still won't solve the problem. I think my h thinks she will want to carry on a long distance r with her.

I don't want to sound naive, but I really feel like this is a total infactuation on my h part and she does not have any idea what he is doing or saying....I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to send her an email from an unknown email that lays out the facts that she is on an affair and she is breaking a m... Maybe my mil should kindly call her. I know she would not approve if she knew what he was doing.


M 35, husband 35
M 10
Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count
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