I appreciate what you have to say. I have always been the man in the family and taken care of the finances and done my best to be employed. We made decisions together as I thought that couples do regarding jobs and so on. I have exhibited those qualities in the relationship that you speak of up until the affair. I have always taken my responsibility for take care of what I am able to regardless on my job situation.
I understand about respect, but I believe to have respect it is a two way street. I have shown honor throughout our relationship by doing what is necessary with the that we have both been dealt.
I will check out the threads that you meantion.
Thanks!!!
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097