Everything sounds pretty good! You know, they say that when a couple fights passionately, it's a positive sign because they have feelings for each other. It's worse if they don't fight. He does not act like the kind of guy who recently served divorce papers.
I don't know what is best in the situation. I'm guessing a middle type of deal, where you offer him some support, but then get off the phone. I do agree that if he only wants to be friends and you don't, then there is an impasse. But I guess our assumption is that he DOES want to be more than just friends, but he doesn't realize it yet. It's tricky. The worst that can happen is fairly bad because you can continue to hurt. But it may be worth the risk.
Keep us updated! Stay strong and GALing!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.