Your role is to be "man". Her role is to be "woman". When you carry out your role the way you need to, then she will fill her role or you can D her.
She doesn't treat you the way she does b/c of her age or b/c this is the hand you've been dealt. She treats you like this b/c she doesn't respect you!
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It seems to be almost utter hate.
Pretty close!
You do not show strength, honor, confidence, and leadership by sulking, getting angry, having a pity party and playing the "woe is me". Gucci is right, that makes a man appear very weak and a WAW is never attracted to that.
Find Coach's thread on Boundaries in Newcomers. Go to the Infedility Forum and read Allen's posts or start a thread there. He will work with you and tell you how to "get a plan for your M".
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
