Well things were going pretty good the month my h was back home...he seemed almost his old self towards the end of the month. I hadn't brought up any relationship talks as I was waiting for the right time....then the ow came back in the picture and the h can't stop communicating and pursuing her.

I am seeing the point that she obviously doesn't care or really have any value on marriage at this point in her life.

I am being dark again starting yesterday evening. My h is really on my last nerve at this point. The saying the person who cares the least has control of the realationship.....is very true. In my case a 24 year old has control of my marriage. I wonder what might happen if I truley "drop the rope" and stop caring.


M 35, husband 35
M 10
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