Originally Posted By: nicole8
Well I won't lie but back in jan I did try to call her....she never answered the ten or so times I tried to call.


Why should she?

Originally Posted By: nicole8
This did piss the 24 year old off and my h was furious with me (he was to blame for nothing). claimed he still wanted a d and that my plan to freak her out worked.


Blame is not a zero-sum game; could it be that you were both out of line?

She owes you nothing. She doesn't owe you the courtesy of a phone call, or a reply to an email.

Originally Posted By: nicole8
But he did eventually come home after he couldn't get her to talk with him, I think it took a month for her to get over it because that Is how long my h was home before he left again ...


Out of curiosity, how were things between you and your H for that month?


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."