Yesterday had a good day at work where I got lots of extraneous paperwork cleared up and some very positive meetings about some research I'm trying to get set up. Then had a lovely meal and some great real ales in the sunshine with a good friend, and wobbled home on my bicycle.
Today did a few errands, bought a few new bits for my holiday house which I will take up in 3 weeks time. Then cycled to the park and went for a run with a friend, cup of tea afterwards and cycled home. Mowed the lawn and did a bit of housework and just got back from the cinema after seeing Clash of the Titans. ALso managed to catch up with a couple of mates on the phone.
So the GAL and feeling good continues.
I'd love some advice as to how to approach solicitors meeting on Monday though. I'm not sure whether to continue to try and avoid divorce anymore, or just to go hell for leather and try and prove unreasonable behaviour on her part and get it over with as quickly as possible. I was initially for the former when I booked the solicitors appt 3 wks ago, but last 2 wks have been much more set on the latter. With the interesting evening with the surrogate MIL this wk though I'm not so sure again. I should probably therefore defer the decision until I'm more sure I suppose.
Any suggestions?
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.
