A major disappointment is that I have to make a choice between having her as an IC or using her for the coparenting plan...she is not willing to both, I guess for somewhat obvious reasons. I would like to pursue the insights that she has about my personal problems. OTOH, she has unique qualifications to do the coparenting plan for us because she has a background in working with autistic children and her input on creating a coparenting plan that addresses S6's special needs would be incredibly valuable. So I'll have to make that decision before seeing her again.
Tough choice. Despite her insights and her quick zeroing in on some of your personal issues, I'd lean towards using her Special Needs Skills for S6. Perhaps she knows of a like-minded and like-skilled IC to whom she can refer you. If so, you could sign a form giving her permission to fill in new IC2 on her thoughts .
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
