Have you tried to think what a 17 year old girl would want to do for fun?
It probably wouldn't include you, and I mean this in as nice a way as I know how to say it. A 17 year old girl would want to be with other young girls - party - drink - dance - maybe work out at a club. The list is going to include things that make her feel young.
If she is like so many MLCers, that is her mission - to be young again and stay that way forever. They want a "Do Over" of their perceived Lost Youth. So shopping for new clothes no one can afford might be on the list, along with the things already mentioned. Maybe a music concert that you would not normally enjoy, but she would. Maybe things that get her close to large numbers of younger people?
I am guessing a good list would include a lot of "all about me" activities for her. What do you get out of it? Probably not as much as you put into it, and it might fuel her fire the wrong way.
