W has officially rented her place. Previously she had just put down a hold deposit and signed the lease, but now she has paid first/last months rent based upon the bank activity I saw today. She told me she was going to do this when I told her I would make some cash available.
She hasn't said when she plans to move. As I stated above she may pay the rent without moving out for a couple of months to not disrupt the kids before end of school as me and MIL requested. I haven't asked her anything about when she is moving and don't plan to.
Not much tension/stress at home these days - I have let it all go. I have no urge to check up on her. I know OM is lurking and present and that is the big motivation for leaving, so what else do I need to know at this point?
Then again, she may not go anywhere and just pay the rent. If she does that I will start pressuring her about what she is doing in June. At that time, my potential child support payment would drop due to S18 graduating from HS.
In addition, she has said that she doesn't expect me to pay child support right now anyway, just maybe help her with half the rent. This tells me she isn't planning on moving out right away and having the kids stay there, but she rented the place to hold it so it can be an option for her later.
Who knows, maybe she will start staying there without involving the kids to test the waters living alone. I will cross that bridge when I come to it because I really don't want her coming and going like that with OM in the picture - its in or out I figure.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
