MPT:

SInce you see me describing it in the wrong way, then I guess that explains why my wife ALSO does not understand me. I somehow have to explain that for me to receive love it must be in a physical way. Other forms of loving are appreciated, but they don't really help to fill my love tank, I really only get this through acts of touching of which SEX will give the MOST love to my love bank. I will have to revise that and make it sound more personal, but you get the drift here. But man, it sounds like I will be asking my wife to do something that will be PAINFUL for her to get through, she just is not into touchy, feely stuff anymore.