Thanks! It wasn't easy, that's for sure. I just tried reminding myself that why am I letting her get everything she wants and I'm getting nothing and it did make it a little easier.
I'm trying to figure out the best way to bring up the MC with her. I think if I tell her that I want us to go, so that we have a place where we feel comforable talking, where the person listening isn't going to take sides or judge, that would be really healthy for us. I know she won't want to go, because I don't think she wants to be confronted with the reality of her actions. I guess all I can do is state my case, and if she declines, go for myself.
