Talked to my MC today about our stich. I told him about an argument my W and I had after she came back from her trip. "I don't know why she had to yell at me" I said. He told me she may have a disconnect from what she is thinking to her feelings. She might have a problem associating the proper emotion to her feelings. This sounds confusing but does make sense. My W has bottled up her feelings so much from childhood to now she's not good at expressing them. In a way her yelling is making her more human than alien.
W has changed so much since her MLC. She's not shutting down as much. In the past if you said a negative word to her "wham", she zones you out and repeats "whatever... whatever.. whatever you want" duning any type of disagreement. I hate when she did this. It's not a efficient way to communicate nor does it sound like she's listening. For someone like me who has abandonment issues it's a cruel thing to do.
