I honestly do think she has no clue what my h is doing. I think she has no clue we are still in contact and that just because my h is living at his moms doesn't mean we are not married.
No, no, no. Do not contact OW for ANY reason. You give away your power and OW has something to bond with YOUR H over.
I made that mistake early on in my sitch. Sent OW text telling her I was "throwing H out & she could have him". H spent 2 hours sitting in his car, in front of our house, where I could SEE him, 'consoling' that slattern.
Nice bonding moment for the 2 of them. OW is painted as the victim of 'crazy' W and H rushes to protect her. H winds up 'loving' OW more and 'hating' W A LOT more.
Just my $.02.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
