James, you seem pretty desperate to have THE answer RIGHT NOW to what to do that WILL guarantee EVERYTHING works out FINE.
That just ain't gonna happen dude.
Listen to Rob. Seriously. SERIOUSLY!
I don't post much. I don't update my sitch, because, well, I don't need to... There is nothing happening to me that isn't happening to a bunch of other people. So I read.
The best thing I did, and I did it pretty recently and got results QUICKLY, was to put my frickin' big boy pants on and decide I deserved better than what she was giving me. I let my wife know that I was done with this. I was done chasing, I was done playing games, I was done with her pushing and pulling me depending on whatever she felt like doing that day. I didn't TELL her I was done, mind you, but my actions sure as hell spoke loudly and my actions told her I was done. And she noticed, she noticed fast.
