you're doing ok, no contact worked, you stopped contacting her, created space between you, stopped pursuing her and rejected her enough for her to continue pursuing you, this is where you want to be, we only pursue things of value, let her chase you and don't get caught.
I would continue to tell her things that she told you when she rejected you, example: "I thought you said you didn't love me anymore, didn't something miraculously change recently?"
"Didn't you say you hated me and didn't want to talk to me again, why are you texting me?"
Use the things she said previously when she was rejecting you, tell her you agree with her, she was right, things won't work out between the 2 of you, you guys are too different and she argues too much, she's addicted to drama and you don't want to be with a girl that makes a relationship so much work.
Thanks robx!
I still have no idea whether I have any interest in having a relationship with her ever again. But if I decide to, how do I create boundaries?
More importantly, what do you do when the WAS asks to come home? Obviously just letting them come home is not the answer. If there is no consequence for the action what stops it from continuing or happening again...
