I love going up to Phoenix for a game! The last time the kids and I went we parked for free on the light rail line, and stopped at a fun steakhouse to eat on the way to the game!
And certainly golfing, and grilling! And fun!
And in July and August, there's a good chance of a nice thunderstorm in the evening!
BBJ ~ Stop analyzing it to death. You are bringing "teenage" emotions that you had about sex into your adult life. Do what you want with who you want, just remember our favorite saying:
"It is what it is"
Just make sure you are both on the same page and then no harm, no foul.
BTW~ I did not make FFG a booty call. It was hard to resist but I did. I felt like EX had already f'ed me over enough I didn't need another one. I waited till those feelings went away. I only had those cause EX used me for $ex and I thought it was something else.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
BBJ ~ Stop analyzing it to death. You are bringing "teenage" emotions that you had about sex into your adult life. Do what you want with who you want, just remember our favorite saying:
"It is what it is"
Just make sure you are both on the same page and then no harm, no foul.
Sandy!!!! You are so lucky you are miles away, girl..........
that is the ONLY phrase I have banned!!! I hate that phrase...it is what it is only bc you were too lazy/uninspired/lacking in character to make it any different ya jackass! (At this point my comments are obv NOT directed at you SC)
There was a match profile with that phrase as the headline and I deleted it instantly. Stupid? Maybe, but so what.
My game, my rules.
My brother in Madison taught me that one, and it's a keeper...
I know that in the whole "Way of the DB Warrior" code, we are to NEVER have expectations. But seriously, at some point, with someone who has NOT screwed you over royally, don't you get to have some tiny ones? Apparently not...
So we had one non-date-thing where I asked him to meet for wings and we went to dinner and a movie.
Then he asked me out the following weekend but canceled due to being 'sick'. Ever since then it has been friendly texting which grew to wicked flirty texting, and that one late night movie visit...he keeps saying he wants to get together but there is no follow through! Maybe he gets more jollies from texting about stuff then actually doing it??
I made it clear I wanted us to go out again and he agreed. We even agreed on today as the day...last night at the end of our text fest I said "Going to bed let me know the plan for tomorrow" and he replied, "OK good night"...
So.............wtf?
**Crickets chirping**
Maybe MF is right, he is all talk talk talk and no action...
Don't get me wrong I don't want to come across as a possessive girlfriend bc we are SOOOOO not that! I just thought when a guy said he wanted to go out with you, that he prob meant it...
I'm on this DBWarrior thing. However in the case where your dealing with a WAS "who doesn't care"... Your better off getting the closure you need and letting them "not care" with someone else. Its a terrible attitude and will drag the motivation out of someone who cares about them.
Know what your dealing with. In any case I agree with everything else your saying, but I hadn't really thought about the "don't care" aspect of things.
IE: "things are this way because its the way I want them. There is nothing wrong with you. I'm going to do this as long as I can get away with it, if you don't like it - leave, or I'll leave"...
You know what I'm saying?
If your dealing with a "don't care", get your closure, take your life back and move on.
