GF, from MPOV, a WAS/MLC'r, you are needy and whiney. Did you behave this way when H left? My H did, over and over, all 4 times I came back to him. I couldn't be responsible for HIS happiness because I myself was not happy. That was the behavior in our M the last 7-10 years. I was looking to H to make me happy. The pressure he projected was overwhelming, so much so, I ran the 5th time.
I do agree, most of us, until we "get it" appear this way at first. However in fairness. The perception and or thinking of the WAS is often skewed. Sometimes so much so that a simple question like "What would you like for dinner?" is considered pressure.
