Hi Cemar I agree it is a shame that these people did not put a bit more detail and continue to post but at least it goes to show that there has been some success out there.
Did you see this post from Nopkins.
Well, I think I spoke too soon in my last post. Time is an incredible thing, the great equalizer.
It seems that the more time elaspes between the old, no sex part of our relationship, and the effort at a return to normalcy, the more at ease I become.
I think the trust is returning. Trust that we will never visit the desert again. Trust that her desire for me is genuine. Trust that she will be vigilant not to ease into old habits.
I am maintaining my part of the repair effort. There is a very real caring redeveloping between us. I really do wish we could have solved this riddle years ago before it became such a festering wound.
So, things are going well between us.
If I could offer heartfelt advice to everyone suffering with similar issues, it would siimply be, don't wait, do something about your problem - NOW. Sex problems in a marriage apparently seldom self resolve.
This couple had clearly found a way to make some changes but as I say it's a shame he didn't write a bit more about how he did it.
Anyway as I said every sitch is different so I suppose the thing to do is look at your own sitch anyway as copying someone else would not necessarily work.
