GF, from MPOV, a WAS/MLC'r, you are needy and whiney. Did you behave this way when H left? My H did, over and over, all 4 times I came back to him. I couldn't be responsible for HIS happiness because I myself was not happy. That was the behavior in our M the last 7-10 years. I was looking to H to make me happy. The pressure he projected was overwhelming, so much so, I ran the 5th time.
Regardless of the conditions of your M, the conditions of your health are most important and that is to take care of you! Taking care of you first will take care of the M. I believe the DB Veteren's Mantra. Thanks to all As you are in IC while on meds, you will be advised to take care of yourself first.
The best advice I have received is to treat the M and H as a death. Sure different situations, but same principles do apply to an extent.
You give me hope that I too can stand on my own two feet and live alone.
Me: WAW/MLC 41 H: 42 M: 16 yr T: 20 Me: EA/PA started Sept 2008 D: Anytime, just need to sign papers http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1968939&page=1
As you are in IC while on meds, you will be advised to take care of yourself first.
