Strong, stable, secure in himself, knows who he is and what he wants, willing to take my side in battle, respectful of me...but I have no problems with a man who can talk about his feelings as long as the rest of it goes along with it. could be my professional background or something--but I need that piece too. However, I've learned the hard way that I need more than talking about feelings.

Last edited by hoosiermama; 04/14/10 08:03 PM.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012