You can't control that. She will respond to your compliments, or the compliments of others, as she chooses. And the fact that you are thinking in those terms shows that maybe you haven't moved as far from your controlling tendencies as you believe.
What I mean is. I was told that right-out compliments could be consider pursuit which is pressure. Pressure will push her a way. If I don't compliment my own W, and someone else does she may think "This OM compliments me and thinks I am beautiful but my H does not, why should I give him another chance."
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
