Thanks GM.

W just emailed me that she could meet me at the house at 6pm tonight. That gives us 1/2 hour alone before the realtor arrives. Eventhough I would have liked dinner with W tonight, I think her willingness to meet with me (just the two of us) is ok too. I think her agreeing to meet alone with me tonight takes more courage than meeting in a public place for dinner.

I agree with you about it taking the W longer. I've been over the "shock and awe" of this for awhile now. I've come to terms with my sitch. I understand why she left. I know she needs to see consistency (job, personal changes) if there is any chance. I would love to get where you are with your W. At least your W is willing to talk about the M and what needs to be done for reconciliation. It's good that your W initiates and asks you to dinner and conversations. I'm happy for you and hope it continues.

I'm hoping that after my W and I sign the listing agreement for the house tonight and put that behind us, my W will get to where your W is and begin to discuss our M with me. In the meantime I continue to be patient.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
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