Maybe she'll tell him. She has said recently that he had problems before he ever met me 17 years ago that he's never fixed. But has also said that although it may be an act, he's a completely diff person when interacting with our D5 than he was b4 he walked away.
She wants to talk to him. She sees how I feel about our M, him, my mess ups 8&10 years ago, and how hard I'm trying and don't deserve this. However, she's scared to talk to him. He loves her but typically doesn't like her. She's the oldest and lives a nearly perfect life with a nearly perfect family and he's jealous of that. Also, he says she's always too busy trying to be everyone's mother so we're not sure what her trying to talk to him will do. She is the only one (besides the female friend of the family that he grew up with and they both swear are only friends) that has even thought of talking to him. Everyone else is too scared or don't feel it's their place because he's an adult and can make his own choices. I was raised completely diff. My parents and siblings will always be just that and if I'm doing something wrong or am not acting right, they're gonna deal with it, not ignore it because I'm an adult.
