everyone is losing sight of the simple fact: - women want men who are men - men want women who are women
- women do not want men who act like women
A man with masculine traits is going to be more attractive to a woman vs. a man with feminine traits. You can bitch and moan how this isn't fair and that love shouldn't be about this but that's just how it is. When a relationship deteriorates to the point of separation and divorce and women having affairs behind their husband's backs, etc. you can usually trace the failure to the attraction between the man & woman being killed by something: a man who lets himself go, isn't aggressive, secure & confident enough, a man who is always seeking approval ("Is it alright if I do this or is it alright if I go out", a lazy man, a man who cries too much, a man who doesn't stand up to his wife when she treats him poorly, a man who allows his wife to walk all over him like a doormat and disrespect him. The man may be a good parent and go to work everyday and be a good provider but that isn't very exciting and alluring, think about it. Women are very emotional and they love an exciting, take charge kind of man, not a wimp who talks about his feelings. This is obviously a generalization and we could talk about this for ages but you get the point.
The sooner you understand this and burn this into your brain, the sooner you'll be able to turn around your situations for your benefit.
