Jiji: I am trying to keep my hopes up as best I can. It's just that it would be nice to actually hear from a man on these boards that has actually fixed his situation with his LD wife into something great. I need some ENCOURAGEMENT. Some of the guys on here are reporting a BARE MINIMUM of succes and most are reporting results so bad that they basically have GIVEN UP on ever having a decent marriage. Where are the positive results?