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gman, if you could see the look of digust on my face! What a freaking idiot.


Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
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Hey gman, he did nothing wrong, LOL.

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lol...didn't mean to disgust you, but you see the point of the "Tiger Woods entitlement" cheaters think they deserve.


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I wish we could line up all these cheaters and knock some serious sense and reality into their delusional a$$es!

Where's an Ultimate Fighter when I need one???


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It's all good gman...my days, nights and thoughts are packed pretty full of digust right now, so no worries. ; )


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Originally Posted By: courts0818
It's all good gman...my days, nights and thoughts are packed pretty full of digust right now, so no worries. ; )


i hear ya...they do get better...but i still have a pretty strong feeling of disgust that pops up at least once a day...


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Okay, question. H sent me a text saying that if he could he would redo things.

Am I supposed to acknowledge/respond to stuff like that?


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Nope.

It's not your job to help him relieve his guilt.

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redo what? because he made the wrong CHOICE! he knew there would be consequences for his actions.

he can go boo-hoo on over to someone else.

I swear I have had it with these cheating spouses!


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Let him twist in the wind for now. At some point, down the road, when he pulls the same "woe-is-me" crap, lay this truth dart on him:

"Unfortunately, (Husband), some toothpaste can't be put back in the tube. Our entire family is going to now have to live with the consequences of your affair, including (DD3), which is saddest of all."

A$$hole.

Puppy

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