Just read the thread "bipolar spouse" in the WAS forum. In 99, our MC said that my H was borderline BP. Excluding the crying, because he gets angry, not sad, that's my H. Getting TICKED over mundane little things, never forgetting the negatives but always forgetting the positives, calling me names (lately his favorite has been to tell me that I'm dumb or when he wants to put it "nicely", to say "you're not stupid so why do you insist on acting like you really are this stupid?"), always walking on eggshells around him, insisting that he's not depressed or bipolar, and refusing to take any meds (he used to take antidepressants daily) for years now. It doesn't help that his family who rarely knows of details of our lives much less how he acts to me at home thinks I'm being a B when I say that he needs meds. They think he's fine. Although his sis is currently saying that he's got lots to fix about himself and is 100% wrong in walking away, she did say that when we seperated for nearly 7 mths last time, she like her brother. (She liked the person who desperately wanted me back after kicking me out and after I took his advice and GAL). Do I just sit here praying that someone else will see his true colors and make him realize that he needs IC and meds?
