You're done. Here's a dose of reality: She gets what she wants, You don't. She has already said too bad.

If you read the posts and other boards you would know that she will not change...you will. (likely for the worse, see above posts).

Sit her down and explain that you are divorcing because you will not be going outside of the marriage for sex. And leave.

She will start to work with you if she really wants to be with you. Or you will not leave if...which means you can live without sex. Then be done.

Sorry, man. I've studied this for 10 years, and have a very painful divorce in my past because of this.

The line must be drawn....or stop complaining. Women always ask us to say what we mean. Good luck.

Ask you friends...one of 3 things always happen: She changes, you give up, or you leave. No a 4th...we all just keep complaining.

Hill