My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[timehealsall]

I wouldn't say anything to the OW. She is no friend of yours. All you're coming off as is a hurting, betrayed wife. Nothing more. She has NO morals or values or she would have never involved herself with a M man! No need to preach to her about that. Show her you're the better woman by dealing with your H directly and putting boundaries, with consequences, in place. She'll get hers.. I promise you that.

There were many times I wanted to do the same. the only time I EVER wrote and said anything to the OW, was in response (which is no better) to her reaching out to me.

Hugssssss