Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
gr8,

The point wasn't to affect your decision-making. The point was to spoil her weekend.

No, when they are cheating, we can't control them. But there's nothing that says we have to make it EASY on them, either.

My advice (but only if you knew (via intel) what was about to happen) is for people to send the following text message, as soon as their cheating spouse is on the tarmac:

"I know all about what you're doing this weekend. I hope it's worth it."

Then let their guts churn for the 3-hour flight, while they can't get in touch with you, and then after after landing, you avoid their calls and text messages the entire time they're gone.

Now . . . imagine what the dynamics of their weekend was going to be like before (romantic . . . intrigue . . . sexual . . . fun . . . sensual . . . mysterious . . . carefree), and imagine what they would be like in my scenario (angry . . . argumentative . . . frustrated . . . pissed . . . paranoid . . . etc.) Suddenly, instead of their professed undying LOVE for each other, YOU become their man topic of conversation -- for the entire trip!! cool

See what I mean?? smirk

Puppy


Classic!


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
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Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

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