BBJ ~ Stop analyzing it to death. You are bringing "teenage" emotions that you had about sex into your adult life. Do what you want with who you want, just remember our favorite saying:
"It is what it is"
Just make sure you are both on the same page and then no harm, no foul.
BTW~ I did not make FFG a booty call. It was hard to resist but I did. I felt like EX had already f'ed me over enough I didn't need another one. I waited till those feelings went away. I only had those cause EX used me for $ex and I thought it was something else.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too