One of the most destructive things you can do as you are repairing your marriage is to keep score...I did this, so you should be doing that. It is not a 50/50 proposition at first. Give 100% and watch what happens. Just make sure you're doing the effecctive things. But don't keep score. It will make you bitter and get you off-track. Take the high road!!!
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement