If he isn't pulling your leg...I smell OW. I know you say that isn't possible, but maybe she is paying for him to meet her there? Either way you need to write out what you would like to say to H. Boundaries you want to set and specific topics you want to make sure you talk about, and possibly check them off as you talk. Be prepared for the worst...this really is giving me a bad feeling, but I could be wrong.

Hang in there and remember you have done everything possible. Don't beg if he says D. Don't even plead your case because that will push him away more.

I am hoping for the best and will definitely keep you in my prayers.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
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