You're all right. AS you saw on my last post, I plan to retreat to my bedroom when he's here and not engage. I'm not able to sleep at the neighbors right now so i don't know what else I can do. I'll just walk away from any talk with him.

Abbey - how long of going dark and deflecting his blame did you have to put in before you saw a turn around?


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship