CTH, I don't recall all the details of your sitch and, yes, it's probably too late like it was for me, but have you ever tried telling her
Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
... I lost my way. When we first started dating, I always let her talk. She loves when people value her opinion and her input. She loves it even more today?

But as time went on, we got busier, the kids, I forgot how I won her over in the first place and since we were so busy I just started just taking care of things and explaining it to her later.

I pushed her down this path. I definitely am not without fault.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac