LOL...thx Allen. I agree with all points EXCEPT one. I am going to have him at son's bday party. I just can't not invite him...a personal decision. Don't worry, my dad will be at the party as well so I am sure my dad will give me PLENTY of "looks" as well as husband if things are not going right. My dad is REALLY upset by husband's words to "reconcile" and believes that he is still playing around.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo