Wow, read everything,
You are getting great advice.
Look at this in the worst case scenerio type of mind. He never comes back... how do you live then? Examine the worst case scenerio and you eventually lose fear of it. LIve as if he is gone forever. Don't be stagnated by fear.


For now he is gone, he may come back someday but you have to have changed also.....

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)