I mean you do not what the man he is now, right?....
You want a fixed man, only he can fix himself.

Have you written down goals for you?
DO you have a journal to write down feelings and thoughts?

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)