Because he's already said he doesn't want to go, and that this is ALL ABOUT HIM. He feels as if I controlled, controlled, controlled all of our R and he is not even going to let me make one teeny tiny decision. He is ADAMANT that he will not allow me to DO anything for him and he is ADAMANT that he will not EVER be able to change how he feels about me because I'm just such an evil, horrible b**ch.