Originally Posted By: Lotus
Too complicated. What's wrong with "Retrouvaille is friday. Are we going? If not, I need to cancel. It's getting late"


Agreed; communication between spouses doesn't need to be so complicated. And frankly, it sounds like you're lecturing him.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."